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Silently Watching under a Waning Blooming Moon

Antique books lined three walls from floor to ceiling in the small room that Stefan had order them all to an hour before. A rectangular oak table dominated the centre of the room, its top ink-stained with ancient graffiti scored into it, suggesting that this was a former classroom rather than a meeting room.

“Have there been any fresh sightings at all?” demanded Stefan from his position at the head of the table.

“None, sire,” replied Alessandro, who had been summoned back to the castle from Florence. “There were several dead rats found in the stables yesterday suggesting that Anna had been there in the previous twelve hours.”

“Someone must have seen or sensed something!”

“Not necessarily,” pointed out Meryn calmly. “She’s clever. Very clever. Anna’s an expert at shapeshifting. Plus, she could be changing into any living creature within the castle walls.”

“So how do you propose we find her?” Stefan snapped. “I will not have my family threatened like this or my home infiltrated!”

An awkward silence filled the room. Eventually Alessandro spoke, “We know she is arrogant. We know she is cleaver too. We need to find her weakness. We need to use it to lure her out into the open.”

“How do we find out what her weakness is?” asked Michael, inwardly seeing the logic in the Italian vampire’s words.

“Her weakness is Luna,” stated Jem simply.

“I agree,” added Meryn before her son retracted his words. “I do sense that she wants to teach the child rather than harm her. She’s shown no malice there so far.”

“You are not using our daughter as bait!” raged Trine, her blue eyes blazing with fury.

“I agree,” stated Stefan. “It’s too great a risk. There must be some other way.”

“What about Beth?” suggested Trine.

“No!” shouted Jem and Michael in unison. The two vampires stared at each other for a moment. It was just long enough for Jem to recognise the look in the American vampire’s eyes. He was infatuated with Beth.

“We could be onto something,” began Meryn. “But we need to be extremely careful here. Beth isn’t strong. She’s barely begun to come to terms with what Anna’s done to her. There’s been no time to teach her anything about our ways. She can’t even hunt for herself. She would be totally defenceless and that’s a huge risk to take with my grand daughter’s life.”

“If we can guarantee Beth’s safety, how would this work?” commented Stefan. “How quickly could she be taught to protect herself?”

“Stefan,” snapped Meryn, “Teaching Beth will take time. Time we don’t have here.”

“Bubbles,” said Jem randomly.

All of them turned to stare at him.

“Explain,” ordered Meryn, not immediately grasping where her son was going with this train of thought.

“Beth hasn’t had time to learn anything about magic but Luna has,” continued Jem, scarcely believing he was about to voice is mad idea. “We use them both to lure her out. Luna has been learning to create bubbles. If we teach her to catch things that she wants or likes in the bubbles she makes then she could catch Anna for us. Well, catch her long enough for some of us to disable her with stronger magic.”

“We could throw a second impenetrable bubble around the first one,” said Meryn. “Jem, we could adapt the spell we used to contain her in her mausoleum.”

“That idea might just be crazy enough to work,” observed Michael. “I vote we give it a try.”

“No!” yelled Trine angrily. “You are not using my daughters in that way. It is far too dangerous.”

Hearing Trine refer to Beth as her daughter made Jem’s heart swell with pride.

“If we were all to work together nearby, we could step in at any moment to rescue our daughters,” Jem pointed out.

“Can Luna even create a bubble yet?”

“She can,” answered Meryn. “I vote we give this plan a try. It’s crazy enough to work. Anna won’t be expecting us to lure her in with play.”

“I agree,” said Alessandro, nodding his agreement for good measure.

“It’s so damn crazy it could work,” added Michael. “I vote we give it a try.”

“Same,” said Jem.

“It could have the element of surprise in its favour,” conceded Stefan reluctantly. “I vote that we try it but it needs to be strictly controlled. There needs to be some of you nearby to intervene.”

“I can disguise them,” assured Meryn, her mind already thinking ahead to the spells and ingredients that she would need.

“That’s decided then,” stated Stefan in a tone that left no room for debate. “When do we want to execute this plan?”

“How quickly can Luna learn to catch things in a bubble?” asked Michael. “It all hinges on that.”

“Give us three days,” replied Meryn, confident in her grand daughter’s ability to learn. “Stefan, can you create a play area in the kitchen courtyard? We need to set a scene that looks natural. Beth could innocently take Luna out to play for an hour or two. That way we don’t need to tell her and risk frightening her. The poor girl is terrified of Anna.”

“Leave that with me,” said Stefan.

Teaching Luna how to master the bubble spell proved easier than any of them could have dared to hope. Within an hour, she was sending bubbles soaring all around Meryn’s study then giggling when they burst. Using small sweets at first, Meryn then taught her how to trap something inside the bubble and then how to float the bubble to another person to catch. Gradually they increased the size of the object being placed inside until eventually on the morning of the third day, Luna succeeded in surrounding Jem with an iridescent bubble.

After the little girl was asleep at night, Meryn worked with Jem, Trine, Michael, and Alessandro, teaching them how to work together swiftly to create an impenetrable bubble. Fundamentally, it was the same spell as she had cast with Jem to trap the dark angel in her woodland mausoleum, only this time the entire shield was woven about ground. It took teamwork and precision to create a secure enough bubble prison that they hoped and prayed would hold long enough for Alessandro to bind himself to ger again. Once he was bound to her, the plan was to return Anna to Level Zero beneath the castle.

Convincing Beth to take her little half-sister outside for an hour to play proved to be more challenging than Jem had anticipated. His older daughter was still nervous about being in the castle and looked close to tears when he first suggested the excursion. Despite still being uncomfortable with using her daughters as bait, it was Trine who succeeded in convincing Beth to help by looking after Luna for an hour.

“I’ll take you both downstairs,” Trine began. “Don’t want you getting lost in the castle.”

“Tas- Gwynn got me a surprise,” piped up Luna excitedly. “It’s an outside surprise.”

“Yes it is,” agreed Trine warmly. “Why don’t we take Beth with us to find out what it is?”

“Please, Beth! Please!” pleaded the little girl, grabbing her sister’s hands.

“Ok. I know when I’m beaten,” Beth sighed wearily. “I give in. Let’s go and see what your surprise is, Moonbeam.”

“We’ll all go,” suggested Jem, lifting Luns up into his arms.

“I’ll go and find Meryn. See if she wants to come too,” suggested Trine calmly.

As Jem had hoped, the kitchen courtyard was in the shade as the sun had begun to set for the day. In the centre stood an impressive wooden play set with a swing, a slide, and a climbing wall as well as a cubby for Luna to hide in. Thoughtfully Stefan had laid a rubber mat under it and set up a picnic bench beside it. A veritable feast was laid out on the table.

“WOW!” shrieked Luna when she saw it all. “For me?”

“All for you,” replied Jem lowering her to the ground. “Tas-Gwynn heard how hard you had worked on your bubbles. This is your reward for being a clever girl.”

“I love it!” declared his young daughter before running off towards her new play set.

Both Jem and Beth took a seat at the table and watched Luna easily climb the ladder to the top of the slide then squeal with delight as she slid down.

“Oh, to be that age again,” sighed Beth wistfully as she accepted a glass of lemonade from her father.

“Doesn’t seem that long since you were that age,” mused Jem remembering how Beth had looked at Luna’s age.

“A lifetime or two ago…”

They sat watching Luna play for a few minutes. Out of the corner of his eye, Jem saw shimmers of magic in the shadows as the others took up their positions around the courtyard. He couldn’t sense Anna nearby but he still felt confident that if he left his daughters alone for a few minutes that she would make an appearance. A large part of him, his paternal instinct, felt guilty for exposing Beth to this without her consent but he also knew that she would never have agreed to come outside if she had suspected that Anna would appear.

“Do you think Meryn could teach me some magic?” Beth asked, disturbing his daydream.

“For sure,” he replied. “I think she’s keen to train you to become a healer too.”

“I’d like that,” said Beth quietly. “Would that mean that I would need to stay here when you leave?”

“Most likely,” nodded Jem. “Would that be Ok with you? You don’t need to stay if you don’t want to.”

“I think I’d like to,” revealed Beth hesitantly. “There’ something about here… I don’t know what it is. Feels more natural to be here than at home.”

“Would it have something to do with a certain American?” quizzed Jem playfully.

Beth blushed and remained silent.

“He’ll be happy if you decide to stay,” laughed Jem getting to his feet. “Can you watch Luna for a few minutes? I want to go and see where Trine and my mother have got to. They should have been here by now.”

“Ok. Don’t be too long.”

“I won’t be.”

From his position in the shadows on the far side of the courtyard, Jem watched and waited in silence. Suddenly the whole scheme seemed insane. How could his young daughter capture Anna when all the adult vampires had failed on more than one occasion? He watched Beth get up from her seat to go and push her little sister on the swing. It warmed his heart to see his daughters getting to know one another. Knowing that his sons would never share in this world was a bittersweet thought.

Suddenly his sixth sense twitched. A large crow had flown down onto the edge of the picnic table. The air around the bird shimmered for a split second before he saw Anna sitting on the chair that Beth had vacated.

“Anna!” cried Luna excitedly. “You came back!”

Seeing the dark angel, Beth froze with fear.

The swing came to a stop. Luna jumped off and ran towards the dark angel.

“I missed you,” declared Luna as she flung herself into Anna’s lap.

“I’ve missed you too, moonbeam,” said Anna. “You’ve grown.”

“I learned new magic,” boasted Luna proudly. “Mamm-wynn showed me.”

Before Anna could react, the little girl had spun her bubble spell encasing her in a delicate sphere of magic. Without hesitation, the five vampires who were hidden around the courtyard added their impenetrable bubble spell to Luna’s, creating a second layer around the dark angel. Stepping out of the shadows, Alessandro cast a second spell that shrunk the entire sphere and bound it to him.

Inside the dark angel screamed but no one heard her through the thick layers of intricate magic.

A Flower Crown to Mark Litha

June 21st, the longest day in the Northern hemisphere, otherwise known as the summer solstice or Litha.

In the UK, the solstice is widely associated with Stonehenge and the druids with crowds gathering ever year to watch the sunrise. Stonehenge dates back to 3100BC with the famous standing stone circle itself dating back to 2600-2400BC but did you know that the summer solstice has been celebrated around the world for over 10000 years?

The ancient Celts worshipped Bel, a god associated with the sun, light, healing, and fire around the time of the solstice although there is a strong connection now to Beltane which is celebrated around 1st May to mark the mid-point between the spring and summer equinox.

The Romans honoured the goddess Vesta around the time of the solstice by celebrating a weeklong festival, the Vestalia. Vesta was attended in her temple by the Vestal Virgins who tended her sacred flame. It was said that if the fire went out then Rome would fall.

The Vikings also celebrated the summer solstice with fires and feasting. They believed that at the solstice the veil between worlds was thin and used it as a good time to communicate with the spirit world to divine the future. They too lit bonfires that were intended to drive away any malicious spirits.

In Celtic mythology, it was believed that the summer solstice (Litha) was a time when the veil between our world and the faerie world was at its thinnest. Mythology also marks the solstice as the time of the annual battle between the Oak King who ruled for the first half of the year and the Holly King who ruled until Yule (winter solstice).

Slavic nations historically celebrated Kupala Night at the summer solstice. This was a celebration of fire and water where young couples would jump over the fires to ensure fertility and single girls would float flower crowns down rivers to attract love.

Modern day Litha is celebrated in s similar way by Pagans and Wiccans with bonfires and feasting, the wearing of flower crowns and with rituals to honour the sun and the earth, showing gratitude for a successful harvest to be gathered in.

It fascinates me to see how ancient traditions, myths and rituals remain entwined in 21st Century life.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m off to make my flower crown and to build a bonfire. Anyone got a match?

(Images sourced via Google – credit to the owners)

The Measly Jar of Motivation – what if you gave yourself permission to dream?

Oh, now there’s a question! Who among us doesn’t dream?

I dream on a regular basis. No, I’m not talking about the snatches of dreams that we recall after a night’s sleep but instead I mean our hopes and dreams. If you could wave a magic wand and bring your dream life to life what would your world look like?

Personally, I would start with my kids. I’d love to see them both settled in their dream homes and following their dream careers and living their best lives. All I want is for my kids to be healthy and happy.

For myself, I dream of finding my “and she lived happily ever after” life. This isn’t a pity post, but those who know me, know that life hasn’t always dealt me the kindest hand. Let’s leave that thought there.

In an ideal world, I’d live in an ocean front house like Jake and Lori’s house from my Silver Lake series of books. That really would be my ideal house and location. I’d have enough pennies in the bank not to have to worry about money. (I’m not putting a figure on it.)

I’d be a beach bum cum author. No surprises there!

Every morning, I’d walk the beach at sunrise before enjoying breakfast on the sun deck with my book before spending a few hours writing. There would be no writer’s block! Words would flow effortlessly onto the page. (Well, this is my dream life so why not. LOL)

It goes without saying that there would be at least two large fluffy cats sharing my home in my dream world too.

In this dream life, my books would be on the shelves in the bookstores and be selling well. If I saw any in the stores I’d autograph whatever was on the shelves as a surprise to the reader who eventually picked it up.

Life would be filled with family and close friends and unconditional love.

Evenings would be back lit with stunning sunsets and sleep at night would be sound and uninterrupted.

Oh well…..a girl can dream…..

What would your dream life look like? Please comment below.

An Open Letter of Complaint to Meta…Mark Zuckerberg are you listening? Are there any humans left in Meta’s customer service departments?

To Whom It May Concern

Since mid- March 2026 I have been corresponding with the Meta Pro Team in an effort to resolve an issue around unauthorised payments that were debited from my bank card. These potentially fraudulent payments total around $200 with a further $10 remaining as an outstanding balance on my Meta account.

Despite literally hundreds of emails over the past 12 weeks, I am no closer to a resolution or even an explanation about these payments thanks to the AI generated nonsense that the Meta Pro Team issue by way of a response.

I have refrained from going public with this up until now as I believed naively that I would eventually reach one of the remaining humans at Meta and get either a satisfactory explanation and hopefully a refund of these charges.

As a rule, I do not advertise via Facebook as historically adverts have failed to generate an increase in sales. However, in February 2026, for the first time in 5 years, I set up an advertising campaign for  my book, Riley. I paused it after a few days as it was not generating the anticipated result and I paid the bill of around $25.

At the start of March over a period of 8 days, my account was hit with multiple charges ranging from about $3 up to $18-$20 and coming to a total of circa $200. As soon as I spotted these I reported it to Meta and froze my bank card.  Trying to get a response to my report of potential fraud proved challenging but eventually case 1206XXXXXXXX7513  was created.

Please see below some examples of the Meta Pro Team’s responses to my complaint –

Hi Coral,

Greetings for the day!

This is Patricia from Meta Pro Team and I am contacting you in reference to your ticket number: 1206xxxxxxxx7513.

Thank you for your response .This is to inform you that we have already worked on your issue and the case has been closed as necessary information have been provided from our end .

You may initiate a new chat if you have any issues : https://www.facebook.com/business/help


Thank you for contacting Meta Pro Team. We wish you and your business well.

Regards,
Patricia
Meta Support Pro T
Hi Coral,

Greetings for the day! This is Elias from Meta Pro Team and I am contacting you in reference to your ticket number: 1206xxxxxxxx7513.

Thank you for your response .This is to inform you that we have already worked on your issue and the case has been closed as necessary information have been provided from our end .

You may initiate a new chat if you have any issues : https://www.facebook.com/business/help


Thank you for contacting Meta Pro Team. We wish you and your business well.
Regards,
Elias
Meta Support Pro 
Hi Coral,

This is the final decision.

This is Gracie from Meta Pro Team and I am supervising the team that was assigned to handle your case earlier. We have well received your request wherein you have contacted us in regards to your hacked Account and your reference number is: 1206xxxxxxxx7513.

Coral, kindly accept our sincere apologies for the inconvenience that may have been caused during the chat interaction with our representative. We definitely know how important this is for your business and we are willing to help you as much as we can. We also do apologize on the extended time it’s taking for your concern to be resolved. I understand how important it is for you to get this issue fixed as soon as possible. I will be more than happy to assist you.

To help you best to get this issue sorted for you, we had raised the concern with our specialized team to review the compromised of your Business Manager, and we got an update on the review as well where after the careful review we don’t believe there is evidence to suggest there was a compromise.

As a workaround if you lost the access on this business, you can check with the other known admin of the business to assign you an admin access. I am sure this should work in your case.

Finally, please be aware that the case shall be closed after the indicated solution.

We hope that we have provided you the necessary information. Since the problem appears to be clarified, we will proceed to close this ticket.

For any other issues, please feel free to initiate a chat support session at the following link: https://www.facebook.com/business/help

Thank you for choosing Meta Support Pro and all the best in your business.

Regards,
Patricia| Meta Pro Team
To learn more about supporting your business with Meta visit: https://www.facebook.com/business/help and https://www.facebook.com/business/learn/courses

Thanks,
Patricia
Hi Coral,

Hope you’re doing well!

This is Akruti from Meta Pro Team. I just wanted to follow up with you on Email for the same Reference Case ID: 1206xxxxxxxx7513.

I’m sorry you’re having trouble logging into your account. If you think your account was taken over by someone else, enter your Facebook password at this link and we’ll help you secure it:

https://www.facebook.com/hacked?ref=cr

Once you’re able to log in to your account again, let us know and we’ll help solve your problem.

If there is anything else that you need help with, you may reply back to the email thread and I should be happy to assist you.

Thanks & Regards,
Akruti

Meta Pro Team

Is this the standard of customer service that Meta advocate? This is only a small selection of the nonsense replies that my emails have attracted.

I had a chat with the Meta AI bot and it advised asking for the complaint to be put to the Appeals Board or escalated to the Meta Oversight Board. That sounded promising but the Meta Pro Team have failed to escalate this to anyone.

The consequences of this ongoing concern are that for the last 12 weeks I have kept the usage of my Facebook author page www.facebook.com/coralmccallumauthor to a minimum for fear of incurring further unauthorised charges. This has restricted my ability to connect with my readers and generate potential sales resulting in a loss of income.

I am going public here and now in a final attempt to track down a human being at Meta who is capable of investigating and resolving this complaint case.

Regards

Coral

A walk in WitchWood….

Sometimes in life you need to pull up those “big girl panties” and step out of your comfort zone. Sometimes you need to challenge yourself. It’s never easy but it’s there to be done.

I did just that recently.

I stepped so far out of my comfort zone! So, what did I do?

I took part in my first ever trail race.

It’s been almost a year since I last ran but when I entered the inaugural Witchwood Run at festival level, I felt confident that I could at least walk a couple of laps of the 5.9km course. The event was being run by a friend so I had also volunteered my services as a marshal for later on in the day. (In fact, when I submitted my entry weeks ago, he messaged and asked, “why have you entered my race?”- a very good question!)

The Witchwood Run was badged as a family affair so we took that literally – Girl Child also offered her services as a marshal while Boy Child took things a step further and entered the full 24 hr event, despite never having done any trail running and only ever having run 20km on the road.

Shortly after 7:30am on the Saturday morning, we made our way up to the event’s base camp at Everton Scout Camp in Inverkip, weighed down with bags full of clothing, food, juice and a pop-up tent. Least said about the walk up that hill the better.

We set up camp then Boy Child and I went across to the scout hut to complete our race registration, collect our numbers and our all-important timing chips. The whole area was buzzing with runners arriving and making their final race preparations. From the size of the tent village near the start line, many of them had camped out the night before. Hardy souls these trail runners.

Weirdly I wasn’t nervous. I can get nervous about going to Tesco so feeling calm felt bizarre. That calm feeling lasted until the race directors gave the assembled runners their pre-race briefing then panic rather than nerves hit me like a tidal wave!

What was I doing there? Running races were the late Big Green Gummi Bear’s territory not mine. I felt like an imposter! Fear flooded through me that I was about to make a total fool of myself. Riddled with self-doubt and anxiety, I let the whole scene play out around me. Could I do this?

Still feeling totally panicked I walked across the start line.. well, the clock was ticking. Time to find out what I was made of.

Boy Child crossed the start line with me but quickly forged on ahead. He had his own target in his sights.

My target? I’d told myself I could complete three laps.

As I climbed the stile at the start of the first ascent, I continued to question my sanity. The initial climb up a narrow steep trail criss-crossed with tree roots was tougher than it needed to be. Still panicking, my breathing was shallow and I was quickly gasping for each breath.

My inner voice of reason kicked in and told me to stop being a wimp and to get the job done.

The trail emerged out of the trees onto a fire break road that the course followed downhill for over a kilometre before it took a turn through a gate onto a forestry track. At the end of that undulating track was a gate that led into a field. It was all uphill as the route followed the field’s perimeter round to a second gate that led into a very boggy uneven field to be traversed. Once out of “Shrek’s swamp”, it was across a cattlegrid, back up the long drag of a hill on the fire break road (that gentle downhill on the way out became an endless hill on the way back) then it was back down through the trees, over a second stile then downhill over the timing mat.

At one point while I was walking down the fire break road on the first lap there was a hoarse crow flying above me cackling loudly. I swear that that was The Big Green Gummi Bear laughing at me!

What was I doing there in among all these experienced runners!

Gradually, as I talked myself down, I realised that several of the other competitors were walking with many of them looking as out of shape as me. Whew!

The course was tough going but after two laps I felt ok. Conscious that I hadn’t eaten much, I decided to take a pit stop for dome food before tackling lap three.

As I descended down towards base camp, my calves began to cramp up and I really struggled to get over the second stile without falling.

Duly fuelled up for a third lap, I set off again, cursing that first ridiculously steep section under my breath. This lap, I felt more relaxed and was even enjoying the whole experience. The fear was subsiding thanks to largely to the encouragement of my fellow competitors. Everyone was rooting for everyone else and there were lots of shouts of “well done” and “keep going”. Seeing and hearing such camaraderie warmed my heart and helped to raise my spirits. Halfway round lap three, my brain began to contemplate that maybe there could be a fourth lap…

As I crossed the boggy field for the third time, I could feel both knees protesting. Walking back up the fire break road seemed to take forever as my knees grew sorer and sorer and my calves began to tighten again. The descent down into base camp was agony. It felt as if someone was stabbing knives into the sides of my knees with every step I took. As I climbed over the stile at the end of the lap, common sense prevailed and I decided to call it quits, (I knew I still had to be on my feet for several more hours to complete my marshalling stint.)

I had done what I set out to do. I had put my money where my mouth was and completed three laps (18 km or thereabouts) and had earned myself a stunning bronze Witchwood medal. 

Go me!  LOL

Reflecting back on the event, with my knees still aching, I’m proud of what I achieved. That’s not something I acknowledge very often.

While I had been undertaking my marshalling duties deep into the night, I had been swapping timing chips for medals. It planted a seed. The silver medals are very pretty….. to earn a silver medal, you needed to complete six laps… could I manage that in a couple of years’ time?  Was four or five laps a more sensible target for 2027? Time will tell.

As for Boy Child, I’m super proud of him! He managed a fantastic fifteen laps (88.5km) and earned one of the coveted black medals. Quite the achievement for him and a proud mummy moment for me.

To find out more about the event and 2027’s event details please check out.

The WitchWood Run – 16th May 2026 | 24hr Lap Race in Historic Inverkip

(credits to the owner of the above image )

Every picture tells a story….

Every picture tells a story or so the saying goes…. wonder what the story of the establishment that that sign belongs to is….. I’ll leave that your imagination for now.

Normal blog service will resume next week

What Do You Want To Do When You Grow Up?…Well, it sure as Hell wasn’t this!

A bit of a flippant title but hopefully it grabbed your attention.

What do you want to do when you grow up? Or have you fallen into the trap and grown up?

I’m of an age that I am now in twilight of my “corporate” career and the question “what do I want to do when I grow up?” has crept up more and more often of late.

I’ve half-joked for years that I joined the organisation that I’ve worked for all my adult life to make up my mind what I wanted to do when I grew up and decided that I really didn’t want to actually grow up. There’s more than a grain of truth lingering there.

Growing older is unavoidable and to be embraced as too many people don’t get the chance to grow old. As the years have passed, I have done all the usual adult things- I took out a mortgage and bought an apartment with my then boyfriend and when we got married we upgraded to a house, then another house and another, I had children, I became a widow at 53…. all decidedly adult facts of life but at heart, I still haven’t grown up.

My inner child is still very much alive!

Like most children when I was a little girl, I couldn’t wait to grow up. I dreamed of being an author, of being a doctor or a forensic pathologist. I dreamed about meeting rock stars. I dreamed about living in New York and about owning a beach house (that dream is still very much alive but will require a significant lottery win to make it happen.) All the usual things that kids dream about. What were your childhood dreams? Have any of them materialised?

Let’s face it- adulting isn’t much fun at times. We all need something to dream about. Being a responsible adult, especially if you are a parent, is hard bloody work! I’ve done more than my fair share of adulting over the years but I still don’t view myself as a grown up.

I passionately believe that it is all a state of mind. Being a woman in her mid-50’s doesn’t automatically mean that I want to fall into the trap of the “twin set and pearls” look with the highlighted hairstyle to hide the emerging grey. Maybe it’s a Gen X thing but I still wear my hair long in the same style that I have since high school complete with increasing grey strands of glitter. I spend most of my life dressed in rock band tees and jeans along with my trademark Converse. (Everyone who knows me knows of my love of and addiction to Converse. Please don’t ask how many pairs I own.) I’ll happily wander around barefoot in shorts and vest tee all summer long. I love listening to music especially hard rock and heavy metal and yes, I have several tattoos.

Back to those childhood dreams for a moment. It took 44 years but I did finally become a self-published author. I’ve also been fortunate enough to meet several of my music icons on more than one occasion. True, I never got the college/university degree to become a doctor or a forensic pathologist but I have continued to explore and learn alternative, natural healing techniques.

So, to return to the original question, what do YOU want to do when you grow up?

I don’t want to grow up!. I have no intentions of growing up! It’s bad for your mental wellbeing.

I’ll continue to chase those dreams in my jeans and tees while listening to loud rock music and strive for something more important that being a grown up. I’m on a mission to live “happily ever after.”

Anyone care to join me on my mission?

(Image sourced via Google- credit to the owner)

Beltane is fast approaching….are you fired up?

I saw the above picture on Facebook last weekend and it struck a chord.

Change is afoot in my world and I’ve spent the last few days contemplating it. That picture filled me full of a renewed sense of hope.

“So, what’s Beltane got to do with it?”

“What’s Beltane?”

Beltane is a pagan/Gaelic celebration that marks the midpoint between the spring equinox and the summer solstice. This year that’s 1st May. As a festival it was gradually dying out by the middle of the 20th century but since the late 1980’s it has seen a rekindling. (See what I did there? Hee hee)

Beltane is a fire festival.

According to Irish mythology, Beltane marked the beginning of summer when farmers would lead their cows out to the summer pastures. To celebrate this, ritual bonfires were lit and the local people would walk round or in between the fires with their cattle. These fires were believed to have protective powers. At this time too, every household’s fire was doused and relit with embers from the Beltane fires. It was a time for feasting and celebration.

Beltane is a celebration steeped in the shedding of darkness (winter) and the welcoming back of the light (summer).

It’s a time of change. A time of transition and this year for me personally, its significance isn’t lost on me. (More on that another time.)

If you feel stirrings of passion for something or a need for new beginnings this week, trust your gut instincts and let the Beltane fires energise your soul.

That new project that you were thinking about…start it!

The book you plan to write…start it!

The new whatever it was you have been dreaming about…start it!

I have!

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Saddle up…it’s rodeo time!

During my recent visit to Austin, Tx with my Boy Child for the Motogp weekend at COTA, we traded one kind of horsepower for another on the Friday evening.

The pro rodeo event was in town!

Before I go any further, if you are averse to such events, please stop reading and I’ll see you next week for a different blog. It is 100% not my intention to offend anyone’s sensibilities with this particular blog.

I will also add right at the start here that all living breathing creatures including humans left the arena unharmed.

Ok, still with me?

Rodeo remains a contentious event across the USA with many states restricting events or banning them entirely. (It’s banned in the UK and in many European countries) Professional rodeo events are strictly governed and sanctioned these days primarily by the Professional Rodeo Cowboy Association (PRCA) and the Women’s Professional Rodeo Association (WPRA).

In Texas, rodeo is the official state sport with Rodeo Austin being one of the top five pro rodeos in the USA. Rodeo Austin is a non-profit organisation that been fundraising for the children of Texas since 1938. To date Rodeo Austin has awarded $9.7M in scholarships with 2525 recipients benefiting from this as they work to cultivate agricultural education. This was all positive news to me! Naively, I thought it was simply a two-week event for largely entertainment purposes.

Rodeo Austin is held at the Travis County Expo Center and to be honest, as we approached the site in our Uber, I really wasn’t sure what to expect.

Rodeo Austin is a family event. Outside the Luedecke Arena was a sprawling fairground complete with the obligatory Ferris wheel. It’s the first time I’ve seen a carousel where one of the options was a rooster than a traditional carousel pony.

As we were early for the actual rodeo show, we wandered round checking out the various food trucks until we found ourselves outside a large open barn with a sign saying, “Milking Parlor”. Curious, we wander in and came face to face with a Longhorn bull in a pen!

In the middle of the building, countless cows were being prepared for their appearance in the show ring. Never in my life did I imagine that I would see cows getting a shampoo and blow dry!

The rodeo event itself began at 7pm in the arena. Having had our hands stamped on entry with a purple ink cactus stamp, we took our seats in the bleachers ready to experience our first taste of rodeo.

How many of you have watched Yellowstone and had your heart stolen just a little bit by the inept wrangler and rodeo rider, Jimmy Hurdstrom? I know I have and Jimmy was on my mind as we settled down to watch the show.

There were nine events lined up for the two-hour programme. After a patriotic start, the first of these events was the bareback riding, where the cowboys have to last at least 8 seconds on the back of a bucking horse while only holding on with one hand. You learn very quickly that 8 seconds is a long time!

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The most dangerous event of the night is reportedly the steer wrestling.  This is where the cowboy comes in on horseback and wrestles the cow to the ground by grabbing it by the horns. I’ll be honest, I found this a tough watch.

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So, how do kids aspiring to be cowboys start out? With Mutton Bustin’! A group of kids ranging in age from 5-8 years old lined up next for their 8 seconds of fame when they got to burst out of the chute riding a sheep bareback. This really was a firm crowd favourite and just too cute to watch. It was great to see the winner being awarded the treasured rodeo prize of a belt buckle, same as the adults. Not sure anyone managed the full 8 seconds to be fair.

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Probably my favourite event of the evening was the ladies only event – Barrel Racing. For those who don’t know, barrel racing involves entering the arena on horseback at full speed then sprinting in a cloverleaf pattern around three barrels. Fastest lady wins and there’s time penalties if a barrel is knocked over. The speed of this event is a sight to behold!

Barrel Racing at Rodeo Austin 270326

The last rodeo event of the night was Bull Riding. Fortunately, none of the bulls involved horns as impressive as the Longhorn we’d see earlier! These bulls are huge animals! Why anyone in their right mind would want to attempt to ride one is beyond me. Kudos to the cowboys who do, especially to those who lasted more than 8 seconds.

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The evening was brought to a thunderous close when the horse that had appeared earlier stampeded rounded the arena to take their lap of honour.

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Definitely a cultural experience that created memories to last a lifetime.

April is National Poetry Month….

Did you know that April is National Poetry month?

National Poetry Month is celebrating its 30th anniversary this year.

This annual celebration of poetry originated in the USA in 1996 as a way to increase awareness and appreciation of poetry. Two years later the celebrations spread to Canada and its popularity continues to grow. (The UK celebrates Poetry Day in October so we’ve still to get on board with this celebration.)

Something many of you might not realise is that I was published as a poet several years before I made my debut as an author. Poetry has always been close to my heart.

English class was along time ago but three poems from those high school days have stuck with me over the years: –

The Coming of the Wee Malkies by Stephen Mulrine

In The Snack Bar by Edwin Morgan

An Irish Airman Foresees His Death by WB Yeats

(Feel free to Google them once you’ve finished reading this.)

When my son was little, he attended a speech and drama group through his nursery class where he had to learn various poems. Memories of two of those continue to make me smile: –

Thank You, Dad, For Everything by Doug MacLeod

Daddy Fell into The Pond by Alfred Noyes

Over the years I have shared many of own my own poems on my blog. I love to write acrostic poems where the first letter of each line reads downwards to spell a word. There are several of those in my poetry anthology, Beginnings, that I published a couple of years ago.

A bit like journalling, I use poetry to express my unspoken emotions. It can be an amazing emotional release!

I firmly believe that anyone can write poetry. So, my challenge to you, as part of National Poetry Month, is to write a short poem and to share it in the comments below. I’ll never ask anyone to do something that I am not prepared to do myself so here’s mine.

Pick a theme or a word.

Ordinary items will do.

Explore its meaning to you.

Test your abilities.

Relax and enjoy writing it down.

You might surprise yourself.

For those of you who have not yet found my poetry anthology, here’s the link-

Beginnings – a collection of poems – Kindle edition by McCallum, Coral. Literature & Fiction Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.

Beginnings – a collection of poems eBook : McCallum, Coral: Amazon.co.uk: Kindle Store

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